Secrets for Divorce, Widows and Singles Starting a New Life

It took seventeen days before I could bury my husband.

I decided I better think about what to do and to make a list of what needed to be done and the order it needed to be done. I decided to turn in and wait until morning to start again. I didn't think I would sleep after all I had been through. To my surprise, I slept late in the morning. Guess I was more exhausted than I thought.

Forty years of marriage and now a widow. Scary thought. Heres the list:

• Mail, death certificates, and payment on bills;
• Change all documents with both names;
• Count number of death certificates needed (cars, banks, house, insurance, etc.)
• See about new housing, or repair the one I am in now;
• Job;
• Safety on all sides of me, house and car;
• And, Dating(?).