This is a book about love: hunting it, chasing it, losing it, tripping, and falling into it.

And yes, it''s a book about sex: hunting it, chasing it, losing it, tripping from it, and falling onto . . . ahem . . . it.

But more than anything, it''s a book about self-discovery, navigating the learning curve of adulting, and learning the kind of tough lessons that only come when you have to pick yourself off the floor, block a guy''s phone number (for the second time), and clean some curious stains off your dress.

I dove headfirst into love and sex, and for better or worse, they have taught me that sometimes you just need to try the world on for size to really understand what it is you want and learn who you are. So here''s my experience in the world of men.